Thursday, March 4, 2010

Friend

Definition of Friend
  • a person you know well and regard with affection and trust; "he was my best friend at the university"
  • ally: an associate who provides cooperation or assistance; "he's a good ally in fight"
  • acquaintance: a person with whom you are acquainted; "I have trouble remembering the names of all my acquaintances"; "we are friends of the family" 
 Definition of Friendship


Friendship is the cooperative and supportive relationship between people, or animals. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, affection, and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as the exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for some, the practical execution of friendship is little more than the trust that someone will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than association, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and associations. Friendship and association can be thought of as spanning across the same continuum. The study of friendship is included in sociology, social psychology, anthropology, philosophy, and zoology. Various theories of friendship have been proposed, among which are social exchange theory, equity theory, relational dialectics, and attachment styles.

What is a friend or friendship to you?

2 comments:

  1. My goodness! didn't know it could be so complicated! but definitely a friend is someone who is there for you when you need and you are there when they need it. someone who likes not because of who you are but IN SPITE of you who you are.

    But how about just, in simple terms: I'm thankful we met and that there is another great gal to hang out with? :)

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  2. I couldn't say it better. I realized yesterday it is good to embraces some new friends and not to worry about the people who they say are friends.

    I just didn't realize after so many disappointing things that have happened between "friends" that there are still people out there to trust and enjoy.

    Thank you so much for coming. I had so much fun and really liked the chance to get to know you better. The hand me downs and birthday gifts mean so much to us. Thank you very very much.

    Looking forward to a beach trip. Your place is amazing!!

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